Carried Out, Kicking and Screaming
He told us he had been threatened with a knife.
I don’t know if this has happened for anyone else, but it seemed like whenever Martin needed to travel, the craziest things would happen while he was gone. If Martin left, one of the kids would spike a fever of 105, armed robbers would storm the compound, or some kid would say he was going to die if we didn’t let him move in with us. I wish I were exaggerating.
I may have mentioned before a young boy who became friends with Kirk. We had been happy to have him visit in our home with thoughts of discipling a future church leader. I had studied the Bible with him and taught him a little English at his request. He seemed like a wonderful boy, but that week we found out he had some problems.
He started by telling us that his family was going to kick him out of the house. We were skeptical, but with all of the street kids and orphans around, we knew it could happen. We told him we would help if he got into a bind. Kirk was all torn up, begging us to take him in. The story became more questionable when he said we shouldn’t talk to his family, or they would beat him. Kirk was beside himself, believing that his close friend would become a street kid if we didn’t help him.
Then one day he came and said he had been threatened with a knife. He was in tears. Martin had gone to Nelspruit for the day. Now what was I supposed to do? I consulted the other missionaries on our team, and we decided that his family had to be confronted. We found out that he had told many lies, and that his very nice family wanted him to come home.
He was at our house with Kirk, and he refused to even go outside to talk with his aunt, who had come to fetch him. It turned out that this boy of about 14 had to be literally carried out kicking and screaming by one of the men! He wanted so badly to stay with us. What a scene!
It seemed that our young friend so wanted to live with us that he devised a scheme to accomplish that end. It’s not so surprising really. At that time, everyone wanted to go to America, and we had so much more of everything than he did. No doubt he was hurting. It was difficult to tell him that he had to go, but of course, I couldn’t kidnap him from his family— not that I wanted to. It was just hard.
Kirk learned that you can’t trust everyone, a tough lesson at age 11, but his friend survived and seemed to be fine. Later he came back to help Kirk make kites and learn the culture in many healthy ways, and nothing like that ever happened again with him. Many Mozambicans seemed very happy with the little they had, and put me to shame, but poverty is a scourge that I have never had to suffer. I have no room to judge those who cannot escape the vicious cycle of poverty. I don’t blame him for trying.